Questions...
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litheraThese are my questions from the lovely nym.
1) What is the most important thing you've learned in the past year?
This is a really hard one. I've learned lots and lots of things in the past year, especially about myself. There are so many things I've learned about myself and love and what that means to me, I could probably write a book about them. I think that the most important of them is that I can actually deal with jealousy. The best way for me to deal with it, is to talk about it. My jealousy comes from my own insecurites and my uncertainties. If I'm feeling jealous, there is something wrong and I need to sit down and have a talk with people to figure out why I don't feel safe.
2) If you could change gender at will, would you?
Do you mean change over and then back again? Absolutely. I think that would be amazingly cool. If it was just a one way change, no. There are days I'm really unhappy about being female but I wouldn't want to give it up. It's part of who I am.
3) If you could describe yourself in five words, what would you pick?
I hate these questions. Caring. Intelligent. Observant. Critical. Supportive.
4) I'm cheating and stealing one of yours. ;) If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be and why?
I would love to be able to find the middle ground. It seems that as long as I can remember I swing between feeling too much and not feeling enough. When I'm immersed in feelings, even the good things can be so intense it is painful hurts. When I have less of it, the world is flat and grey. It's hard to explain. Both extremes are useful but I'd like to have more control over the swinging between.
5) What is your best trait?
Physically? My hair. Hands down. As a person? My ability to listen and understand. I'm a great listener and typically I give good advice, though I won't if I think I'm over my head.
nym.1) What is the most important thing you've learned in the past year?
This is a really hard one. I've learned lots and lots of things in the past year, especially about myself. There are so many things I've learned about myself and love and what that means to me, I could probably write a book about them. I think that the most important of them is that I can actually deal with jealousy. The best way for me to deal with it, is to talk about it. My jealousy comes from my own insecurites and my uncertainties. If I'm feeling jealous, there is something wrong and I need to sit down and have a talk with people to figure out why I don't feel safe.
2) If you could change gender at will, would you?
Do you mean change over and then back again? Absolutely. I think that would be amazingly cool. If it was just a one way change, no. There are days I'm really unhappy about being female but I wouldn't want to give it up. It's part of who I am.
3) If you could describe yourself in five words, what would you pick?
I hate these questions. Caring. Intelligent. Observant. Critical. Supportive.
4) I'm cheating and stealing one of yours. ;) If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be and why?
I would love to be able to find the middle ground. It seems that as long as I can remember I swing between feeling too much and not feeling enough. When I'm immersed in feelings, even the good things can be so intense it is painful hurts. When I have less of it, the world is flat and grey. It's hard to explain. Both extremes are useful but I'd like to have more control over the swinging between.
5) What is your best trait?
Physically? My hair. Hands down. As a person? My ability to listen and understand. I'm a great listener and typically I give good advice, though I won't if I think I'm over my head.
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Date: 2003-06-11 05:41 pm (UTC)teh questions....
Date: 2003-06-16 07:34 am (UTC)2) What are three places you haven't been that you want to visit?
3) What is one fashion trend that you would bring back if you could?
4) You're given the money to make a movie - you have ILM or WETA and directors and producers - whoever you want at your disposal. What's the plot?
5) Other than growing up happy and healthy, what sort of dreams do you have for David?
Questions monkey!
Date: 2003-06-16 07:39 am (UTC)2) You can live in an alternate universe whenever you want. (Can be a comic book or film universe.) Where do you go?
3) What's your favorite kind of monkey?
4) You can make the perfect meal for yourself (no expense spared) - what is it?
5) You can go back in time and see how things really were - when and where do you go?
with the questions...
Date: 2003-06-16 07:45 am (UTC)2) What is your perfect dream job?
3) You are given control of one tv show or comic book for one year. What is it and what do you do?
4) Have you ever had a perfect moment?
5) What is your ideal vacation?